Surrender to the Realities of What Men Want
In circulating chapters of my manuscript, "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha," for feedback, I sometimes was told that my advice made a woman too "submissive" to a man or to men generally. I can understand that point of view, but I disagree with it. My advice simply accepts the truth about (most) men: * Men are visual and love beauty in a woman. * Men are sexual and love sexiness in a woman. * Men are masculine and love femininity in a woman.
By making yourself beautiful, sexy, and feminine for potential Good Men, you are only "being submissive" or "surrendering" to the realities of men and women and to what can help you attract those Good Men to you. I don't want to be too defensive here. In fact, rather than making you submissive, I believe my advice empowers you.
Beauty and a sexy femininity tend to give a woman confidence, more power, and greater control in finding love and marriage with a Good Man. Isn't this obvious to you? Don't you sense how beauty and a sexy femininity are your allies, your friends in seeking the happiness of love and marriage to a Good Man? Go on a Fun and Exciting—Even Outrageous—Journey The whole process of finding and marrying a man and then keeping your marriage alive and happy should be a fun experience. (Why do people think that it is so difficult to find a man, not just any man, but Mr. Right, your Prince Charming, a near-perfect-for-you man, a husband, your Good Man?) Do you want to have an enjoyable and exciting time or a difficult time finding your man? It depends on your attitude. I suggest we go on a fun and exciting—even outrageous—journey to attract appropriate men and then to choose and to keep your one Good Man for life.
The journey begins right here, as you read this page. Get ready to be outrageous! Relax. Loosen your bra straps and get ready for some feminine, hot, sexy Asian secrets for finding, marrying, and keeping your Good Man. Get ready to become an American Geisha.
Py Kim Conant, Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man, Hunter House, October 28, 2006. Looking for relationship, dating and sex tips? Visit Py’s website at http://www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com
